Happy birthday, my love!

November 25 is my husbandโ€™s birthday, and this year we decided to take the whole day off just to be together. Nothing fancy or over the top. Just us, spending time and catching up on the things that actually matter. Most of the day was already set aside for his checkups anyway. He was recently diagnosed with type 2 diabetes, and since Iโ€™m pregnant, we figured itโ€™s the best time for both of us to start eating healthier and paying closer attention to our health.

He was in the ICU at the end of October because of DKA (diabetic ketoacidosis). We were not aware of his condition. One day I just noticed his sudden weight-loss. He was lethargic so weak, I rushed him to the ER. DKA happens when the body doesnโ€™t have enough insulin, so it starts breaking down fat too fast, and the blood becomes acidic. Itโ€™s serious and can turn dangerous really quickly if itโ€™s not caught early. Prevention and early diagnosis really do make a world of difference, I thank God we caught it before it was too late.

Before his appointments with the ophthalmologist and internist, we grabbed lunch at Wok n Roll. I told him it was my treat and he could pick anywhere he wanted, and of course he chose something simple and affordable. Very him!

At the eye clinic, after some tests, the doctor told us his vision is now completely back to normal. When he first came in during the DKA episode, his eyesight got so bad that he couldnโ€™t even read his phone. He was prescribed a +3.00 reading glasses at the time. It was such a relief that after a month all is good nos. The doctor recommended blue-light coated lenses for work, so after the appointment we went straight to the optical shop and I got him a really nice pair. Theyโ€™ll take about three weeks to arrive. Thatโ€™s Cayman for you; everything has to be special ordered and imported, even lenses!

The next appointment was with the internist. I showed the him all the readings from the glucometer in the past 25 days (yes, I have a whole log), and he was pleased. He even told us we could stop the insulin injections and just continue with the pills. My husband and I was so relieved.

Because it was his birthday, before we went home I told him he could pick one thing he really wanted. He chose the new AirPods Pro, so we grabbed a pair and you shouldโ€™ve seen how happy he looked! We had some light snack at the Filipino bobba place in town called Mix & Match in a Box before heading home.

Today wasnโ€™t extravagant or busy or picture-perfect. It was simple and quiet, and honestly thatโ€™s all weโ€™ve ever wanted for days like this. Spending time together has always been the best gift in my life.

Happy birthday, my dear husband. Iโ€™m grateful for you, for us, and for our little family thatโ€™s growing in ways we used to only talk about. I love you! ๐Ÿ˜˜

you may also like

  • The Hallotober Tag

    The Hallotober Tag

    I know it’s late to do the Hallotober tag since it’s November in like two days, but I’d like to go and participate in it anyway! Thanks to Izzy for tagging me, and Jordanne for this idea! Halloween has always been my favorite part of the year. I know some people would say Halloween isn’t something to be celebrated because of its origins, but common guys, it’s 2020! Halloween is fun because you can dress up as literally anyone and go to spooky parties! It’s that one time of the year where everybody suddenly becomes a cosplayer; and everybody suddenly has a supernatural experience to share. I love watching horror movies with my friends and be frightened with them, I don’t know, it makes me…

  • Today’s my birthday!๐Ÿฅณ

    Today’s my birthday!๐Ÿฅณ

    I’m spending it here in Jamaica with my husband, in his hometown. It’s a little extra special this year because tomorrow also happens to be our first wedding anniversary. Getting here was a bit hectic. I worked from 8:30AM until 3:30PM yesterday, rushed to the airport for our 5:30PM flight, landed and cleared immigration by 7:30PM, picked up the rental car, and then drove another 2.5 hours โ€” well, he drove not me lol It was my husband’s first time seeing his brother in a while, and his mom is also visiting at the same time (she’s based in the U.S.), so we ended up hanging out late. Around 1 AM, they surprised me with a birthday cake and sang happy birthday โ€” I wasn’t…

  • Life Update: Week 3

    Life Update: Week 3

    This week has been pretty mundane, nothing much about me. How about you? The things that kept me busy all week are errands for my workplace and mostly games. The island has been responding very positively on the restrictions set up by the government to prevent the spread of the virus (e.g. curfew, essential business operations, last name protocol, etc). They have been doing an feedback session every two weeks, and when circumstances are getting better, restrictions are being gradually lifted. Majority of the population are obedient with the policies in place that’s why we are now only on suppression level 3, coming from maximum suppression! Great job Cayman! Anyway, in another news, I downloaded the The Sims 2: Super Collection a couple of days…

  • The office party I almost didnโ€™t go to

    The office party I almost didnโ€™t go to

    Last December 6, my workplace held our annual Christmas party at Ristorante Papagallo in West Bay. Luckily for me, itโ€™s close to where I live, and I wasnโ€™t part of the planning committee this year. No running around, no stressing about venues, and no last-minute logistics on my plate. A small but very appreciated win. Last yearโ€™s party was at the Kimpton, and while I donโ€™t think I was officially on the planning committee then either, I still worked closely with the team that handled all of that. So this year feltโ€ฆ lighter. I moved into my new role back in August, and so far itโ€™s been both exciting and challenging. Iโ€™m now working with the sales team, which means Iโ€™m learning the income-generating side…

  • The Crystal Caves

    The Crystal Caves

    The Crystal Caves are one of Cayman’s natural tourist  attractions located in a lush tropical forest. Amongst the forest and caves are captivating tropical plant and animal life. Millions of years ago, the caves were all underwater. As time passed, sea levels began to lower and land became visible. The caves were formed due to water erosion. These were used as hideouts or hurricane shelters by the pirates hundreds of years ago (yes, pirates of the Caribbean were actually a real thing!), and according to legends some of their treasures were hidden here! I went to see the site like around a month or two ago before the pandemic went crazy and I was with two other cruise tourists. Our jolly tour guide would every…

  • A Slow Sunday in Mandeville

    A Slow Sunday in Mandeville

    Today was one of those slow-paced Sundays where we didnโ€™t really have a planโ€”we just drove around Mandeville with no particular destination in mind. Most of the shops were closed (as expected in the countryside on a Sunday), but that didnโ€™t stop us from exploring and soaking up the scenery. One of the most interesting places we passed by was what my husband calls the โ€œRed Lake.โ€ He told me that when he was a little boy, people believed the lake turned red because nearby factories used to dump chemical waste into it. ๐Ÿ˜ณ These days, itโ€™s no longer a lakeโ€”just a wide expanse of reddish dirt. According to one of the locals we spoke with, my husbandโ€™s story checks out. They said the dumping…

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *